There might be lots of beautiful girls on the dance floor, but dancing or talking to them can look pretty intimidating.
You don’t know what to do or say.
How to approach a girl in a club when it’s loud, when the space is tight, and you don’t even know the girls?!?
Besides, they form those little girlfriend groups on the dance floor that almost seem impossible to penetrate.
Maybe you fear getting tongue tied, saying something stupid or even being rejected completely by the girl.
Just relax…
If you approach girls in the right way, your chance of successfully getting their phone number increases fast, and it’s probably easier then you think.
The secret of learning how to approach a girl in a club is all about ‘getting’ the perspective from the girl’s point of view, letting go of anxiety and being confident.
A Quick Example: Approaching Girls In Clubs VS On The Street
Let me give you an example to explain what I mean with all this…Beautiful women get approached all the time in one way or another at bars & clubs.
Most of the time guys come up to them and say things like “Wow, you are so beautiful” or “Can I buy you a drink?”.
This is in general not a good way for how to approach a girl in a club or bar, because you give away all your power and communicate that you have nothing to offer to her, which of course doesn’t create attraction at all.
In my other article about street game, called “how to approach a girl on the street“, I told you CAN get great results using these lines.
So what is the difference between club game and day game?
Getting approached on the street is usually very exciting for a woman, because it almost never happens.
That’s why, you don’t have to be very unique in what you say to her, and you can just ask her simple questions like “Where are you from?” or “What are you doing?”.
In bars & clubs this is different, because guys are approaching women there all the time (especially when they are drunk) and ask standard questions like “What is your name?”, “Where are you from?”, “What do you do for a living?”, “Do you come here often?” etc.
This is not the way for how to approach a girl in a club, because it feels like an interview to them and not a real conversation. So it is best to avoid all those questions in the first couple of minutes, or else the woman will be bored out of her mind.
Alright, let’s continue… because learning how to approach a girl in a club is by far the biggest thing holding most guys back from ball blistering success with women.
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A club can be a particularly frustrating place to meet someone, with all the noise, the crowd and the business of the participants. In fact, most women don’t go to clubs to meet men. Yet, many men go to clubs to meet women.
Here are a few simple techniques you can use if you’re interested in learning how to approach a girl in a club with success.
How To Start Conversations With Women In Bars & Clubs?
There are basically three ways when it comes to how to approach a girl in a club:Indirect, direct or situational (eg. when you observe something in the environment). Of course there are combination possible, so don’t limit yourself.
You can do whatever you want, but when you don’t have a lot of experience or confidence with how to approach a girl in a club, I recommend you to just start a conversation without showing interest right from the start.
So that means to approach in an indirect way, for example by asking her opinion on something.
If you want to make it interesting for her, then ask something about clothing, dating, relationships, style, famous people etc.
For example, you can approach a woman or group of women and ask them ‘Hey, I want to buy a new fragrance next week. What do you guys think is a good fragrance for a man? Any suggestions?’
The advantage is that you already have an interesting subject to talk about and then you probably don’t run out of things to say for a while, instead of approaching women or girls in a direct way or situational.
Still I recommend to regularly switch to other topics, or else the conversation gets boring.
You can make the conversation even more comfortable when you communicate that you are going to leave in a couple of seconds. You can do that by saying it verbally or nonverbally by showing that you are about to walk away and by talking over your shoulder.
The Next Step in Approaching Girls in Bars and Clubs?
Attraction in an early stage in the interaction is key.That’s why I advise you to read about our conversation tips for attracting women to create attraction as fast as possible.
The attraction techniques I discuss in this article are Teasing, Role Playing, Misinterpretation and mixing Humor with Arrogance. An example of teasing a woman, when she replies to the opinion you ask her, is to say to her ‘Wow, you sure have a strong opinion about that… you’re pretty feisty, I like that!’ in a fun a playful way.
After that, you can introduce yourself, with something in the lines of “Oh by the way, I am [name]“, tell about something you did today, ask with whom she is here with, ask where she knows her friends from etc. But don’t ask the standard questions like the ones I have listed above.
Just wait with those questions until she asks you those questions, because when SHE is attracted to you and wants to continue the conversation, she will almost always ask the ‘standard’ questions to you. That way you know she is interested in you and you can ask the same questions to her.
The more you know about her, the more interesting and dynamic the conversation will be. For example, when you ask where she knows her friends from, you can use her answer to tell something about that from your own life or ask her a specific question about it, so you will get more depth in the conversation.
How do I get her number?
When you have a real conversation and she is asking you the ‘standard’ questions, she is attracted to you and wants to know more about you.Now you can get her phone number, by saying something like:
“I going to get back to my friends, but let’s continue this conversation another time, because I want to know more about you.”
“Write down your number here / Type your number in my cell phone.”
This is essentially the same as getting a woman’s phone number on the street.
The only difference between the bar or club and the street, is the fact that you can ask real simple questions on the street, and she will already be interested in you.
To put it even more simply…
The answer to the questions “How to approach a girl in a club” is basically the same as approaching a girl on the street, except that you have to be a bit more original if you want be successful.
This is it for now with regard to my instructions on how to approach girls in clubs and bars. If you have any questions with regard to this topic, please post them down below.
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